death and dying

i dont like death. sure, its a natural progression in the grand scheme of things, but its just something that is hard for people to deal with. a girl i used to know was just killed in a car wreck. now, i say know, but really i just know a lot of her best friends and sorority sisters, and have hung out with her some through them. still, i feel for all the people who i am still close to that are affected by her death. i think back to when someone i cared for died and how fucked up that had me and our circle, and i am sure they are feeling the same way. so, i look up this girl in facebook, and i see of course, people writing on her facebook wall. i think people doing this is a good and bad thing, but you have to choose your words wisely. im all for the heart-felt messages that you wish you could have said to the person while they were still alive, but don't say things like, "you are in a better place. I can't wait until I get to see you again!" seriously, you can't wait until you die so you can maybe go to heaven and see that person again? i hope i can wait at least another 70 or 80 years until i get to see those i've lost again. if something should happen to me in the next few years, dont tell me you can't wait to see me. wait as long as you can, because its not like im going anywhere.